You know you’re getting older when you find your birthdays barreling down on you like an out of control freight train….and you can’t get off the tracks.
When I was a kid, I loved birthdays. It felt like a national holiday just for me. Lots of presents, maybe your name would be mentioned on the P.A. system at school, and you had amnesty from your parents for those things that would get you in trouble on any other day of the year.
Pretty sweet! You just had to avoid the ‘Patty-Whacks’…that part sucked!
Overall, I still like birthdays, but the amnesty thing doesn’t work so well anymore, and you NEVER want your name called out on any P.A. system. Flying under the radar is the key to birthdays when you’re old enough to remember life before microwave ovens and computers.
The trouble is, now I spend more time thinking of what I dreamed of as a kid and just how far from that path I wandered. That sounds more morose than it is….I wanted to be either Spider-man or Bat Man. I probably would have ended up as some sort of mutant 8-legged bat super hero thingy.
I don’t think that would have worked out very well.
I do spend time thinking of what I really want to be when I grow up, though. I know, it sounds stupid coming from a guy past the curve of his working life. I guess I just never really gave it a lot of thought.
I always envied those people who just knew what they wanted and went after it. It didn’t even matter if that’s not what they ended up doing – just the drive towards something they could see down the road always left me in awe.
My plan was probably a lot like a fugitives – stay one step ahead of trouble. If I could do that, I’d be doin’ all right! It also meant that I’d probably never reach any sort of destination. Not sure if that’s good or bad.
But I think I finally got it down. I think, that after
40 50 something years, I can say with some conviction that what I really want to be when I grow up is….rich.
That sounds pretty shallow I’ll admit, but honestly, I think I’d be really good at it! I’m a fun-loving guy, and I’m generous, at times, to a fault. I’d totally share in my riches….tithe, volunteer, help my fellow man and all that – even throw pool parties and invite people over, or have huge barbecues and feed the whole neighbourhood.
Just to be clear, I’m not talking Warren Buffet rich. That’s too much pressure. In fact, I’m not even talking ‘personal jet’ rich. Just rich enough so that I don’t have to worry about prioritizing work over play. Doesn’t that sound great??
I don’t want to have to go to the grocery store in disguise, though. I will – I just don’t want to have to.
Frankly, I don’t know why everyone else hasn’t thought of that as a goal for life. I guess that’s what happens when you have enough time to contemplate your options, and have worked long enough to know what you NEVER WANT TO DO AGAIN.
Now that I have that figured out, all I need to do is get rich.
Who wants to help me?